Charlie Trotter, R.I.P.

Owner and head chef of his well-regarded eponymous restaurant in Chicago, charlietrotterCharlie died yesterday at the age of 54. The cause is as yet unknown, but this is just another reminder that we are never guaranteed a tomorrow.

I never got to eat at Charlie Trotter’s before it closed—couldn’t afford it. Besides, I always thought he was a bit of a snob which is completely unfair of me. I regret that now.

Charlie was great at what he did, and more than that, he helped others to achieve success as well.

Bon voyage!

 

Oh Dear!

Paul-bunyan-at-msuMy, my, there is a frightening noise blowing in on the east wind!

Sounds of torches being lit and pitchforks being sharpened, accompanied by much weeping and gnashing of teeth…

Let’s all remember that these are 18-21 year old kids. It’s not the end of the world.

Paul is back home where he belongs, so get a grip, take a breath, and beat the snot out of those Huskers on Saturday!

We’re counting on ya little brother.

 

Happy All Hallows Eve!

catbat-230x300No, not this.

Not the Americanized festival of costume parties and children dressed as monsters mooching candy door-to-door.

I mean the day before All Saints Day!

Now, I’m not against a little harmless fun, I just wanted to remind us all of the more edifying aspects of this day in the calendar.

As usual, we humans have lost touch with those things that are meant to build up our souls, the things that make us think. Instead, we prefer a brief moment of blissful forgetfulness that life is hard.

Damn the future! Pass the cider!

So what’s up with the Feast of All Saints?

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It’s Not My Fault

John_Belushi_the_blues_brothers-43995197It’s Monday, the sun is shining, the squirrels are scurrying about, the birds twittering happily, red and gold leaves are trembling in the autumn breeze…it’s all so delightful that I thought I’d give you a real downer of a post.

I recently heard an interview on NPR (Yes, I listen to NPR occasionally. Purely for anthropological reasons I assure you) with Ann Doswett Johnston, a recovering alcoholic, who’s the author of a new book discussing her addiction entitled, Drink.

In it, she discusses the double-sided coin of feminism, which has empowered women to drink like a man does without any stigma attaching to them, while acknowledging that because women are built differently (ya think?), they are more likely to abuse alcohol. She further points to the aggressive marketing of liquor companies aimed directly at young women. National statistics seem to support her claim of a rise of alcoholism in women, especially among the ranks of the college aged and young professionals.

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Roadkill Saturday

roadkill_funnyLong, long ago, in a galaxy far, far away, a young Rob worked in a tweedy, old mens’ haberdashery.  Being retail, one had to work on Saturday, and autumn Saturdays were always my favorite.

I worked with one old-timer named Phil, who’s grown son Mark lived in town. Mark worked for Georgia Pacific during the week, but on weekends, he turned into a chef.

So, Saturday morning, while we were still Windexing the tie case and straightening the Countess Mara sweaters, preparing for another lazy day of schlepping rags, the phone would ring…

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A Matter of Life and Death

www-St-Takla-org___Jesus-with-Sinned-Woman-05I’ve written before about the Christian view of life and death so this will be a short post.

It seems to me that we westerners—and by that I mean western civ—dislike talking about death, much less thinking about it. There’s no time in the day for dwelling on unpleasant subjects when there’s so much to be done!

If we ever do take a moment to reflect that death is coming for us some day, it’s usually only when someone close to us dies, and then only fleetingly. It’s an uncomfortable thought, vaguely disconnected from the life we’ve constructed for ourselves. However, like Hamlet, we wonder what dreams may come when we’ve shuffled off this mortal coil, and it gives us pause.

Not so the Christian—or so it should be. The Christian knows that this life is a pilgrimage leading to our true home of blessedness with God, therefore he has hope. But the Christian also prays along with the Psalmist, that he might have the wisdom to number his days, realizing that life is indeed short and that he must give an account of it to God.

Honestly, for me, that thought is terrifying. Terrifying enough to compel my repentance? So far, painfully slowly. I pray that God will grant me time, because I have a great deal to answer for.

Still, I am hopeful as I should be. Like my patron St. Dismas, I recognize who it is that judges me. I know Him to be merciful. He knows that I am but dust.

I Have No Words

All right, yes I do.

Eddie Diaz, age 26, died unnecessarily by falling under a train. Why?

Witnesses told police that Diaz realized he left his cellphone on a bench as the train left the station. Diaz then broke the glass of the emergency safety mechanism, pulled the emergency stop lever and exited through the front passenger door, police said.

What does this say about Mr. Diaz and his priorities? More than that, what does it say about the society we’ve fashioned for ourselves, that a person would come to see something so insignificant as worth his life?

  • Young people in Chicago shoot each other over a pair of gym shoes.
  • Women choose to kill their unborn child in favor of a relationship, career, or their “freedom.”
  • Men and women divorce after decades of marriage because the thrill is gone.
  • People of all ages abuse drugs and alcohol as a means to cope with life’s stresses.

As a species and a culture, our selfishness is staggering. Ironically, it’s that very selfishness that militates most against our own good and well-being.

You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.¹

 

¹ Eph 4:22-24 NIV